Thursday, October 25, 2007

Are you going to play or what?

This will come to no surprise to anyone who knows me, but in case you missed it somehow, I'll make it easy for you: I need attention. I am unhappy when I'm not getting the level of attention I think I deserve (WANT is probably the better word - but it makes me sound kind of spoiled - yeah, yeah, if the shoe fits, blah, blah, blah). I have NO trouble making it known that I am not satisfied. I don't need a LOT of attention necessarily - but I do need to see that an effort is being made. On the flip side, I am perfectly happy to do everything within my power and put a great deal of effort into making others happy, I'm just nice like that. ;0) None if this is a mystery and I don't even attempt to hide it - so one would think that anyone close (and I mean VERY close) to me would understand this fact, right? Apparently not.

I think there are a lot of things about relationships that can be compared to a game of catch. One person throws the ball, the other person catches it. In a perfect situation, the person who caught the ball, throws it back. Both people playing this game of catch can make it more interesting depending on how they throw/catch, etc...it's incredibly dynamic and SHOULD be fun. That said - I'd just like to say that it sucks to play catch with someone that continues to drop the ball - and needs to be prompted with a hissy fit from the other participant to pick it up and throw it back. Dumbass.

6 comments:

The 1 Hoo-Hoo in a house of Winkies said...

Perfect!! I love it....but then again you knew i would.

Lil Kate said...

You're so good with the metaphors... ;)

LabTech said...

Without metaphors, I couldn't communicate with him. Again - he never sees the brick coming no matter how many times I say "hey dumbass, I'm holding a brick, you might want to pay attention to it" - nope, still have to hit him with it for a reaction. He makes me tired (and not in a good way). ;0)

Dr. Who said...

Some people are just not worth playing with in the first place. Too bad natural selection works so slowly.

Lil Kate said...

Dr. Who's comment made me laugh out loud. :)

LabTech said...

Me too!